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  • Stay True by Hua Hsu

    Stay True by Hua Hsu

    Page 9

    You couldn’t discriminate against the right answer. But I preferred to spend my time interpreting things.

    Page 11

    We spent summers and winters in Hsinchu; weeks would pass when the only people I spoke to were my parents and their middle-aged friends.

    Page 21

    The first generation thinks about survival; the ones that follow tell the stories.

    Page 40

    When you’re young, you are certain of your capacity to imagine a way out of the previous generation’s problems. There is a different way to grow old, paths that don’t involve conforming and selling out. We would figure it out together, and we would be different together. I just had to find people to be different with.

    Page 57

    The present was a drag. We lived for the future. Youth is a pursuit of this kind of small immortality. You want to leave something behind.

    Page 64

    It was only in my zine that I admitted to dreaming of anything great. In real life, I feared stepping into too large a world and failing. But I wrote things that were earnest and open, that I would never dare say out loud.

    Page 68

    You make a world out of the things you buy. Everything you pick up is a potential gateway, a tiny, cosmetic change that might blossom into an entirely new you.

    Page 101

    Everybody likes something — a song, a movie, a TV show — so you choose not to; this is how you carve out space for yourself.

    Page 180

    Sifting through these small moments of the past was a way of resisting the future.

  • The Magic of Thinking Big by David Schwartz

    Page 24
    Big ideas and big plans are often easier – certainly no more difficult – than small ideas and small plans.

    Page 57
    Action cures fear.

    Page 67
    Your mind wants you to forget the unpleasant. If you will just corporate, unpleasant memories will gradually shrivel and the teller in your memory bank will cancel them out.

    Page 88
    Suppose you say, “We face a problem.” You have created a picture in the minds of others of something difficult, unpleasant to solve. Instead say, “We face a challenge”, and you create a mind picture of fun, sport, something pleasant to do.

    Page 124
    It isn’t so much what you know when you start that matters. It’s what you learn and put to use after you open your doors that counts most.

    Big success calls for persons who continually set higher standards for themselves and others, persons who are searching for ways to increase efficiency, to get more output at lower cost, do more with less effort.

    Page 129
    The bigger the person, the more apt he is to encourage you to talk; the smaller the person, the more apt he is to preach to you.

    Page 152
    The child is a living reflection of how his parents or guardians think; for he learns through imitation.

    Page 153
    The way we think toward our jobs determines how our subordinates think toward their jobs.

    Page 204
    Get the family on your team. Give them planned attention.

    Page 209
    You don’t get a raise on the promise of better performance; you get a raise only by demonstrating better performance.

    Page 221
    Recognize the fact that other fellow has a right to be different…you don’t have to approve of what another fellow does, but you must no dislike him for doing it.

    Page 234
    Excellent ideas are not enough. An only fair idea acted upon, and developed, is 100 percent better than a terrific idea that dies because it isn’t followed up.

    Page 238
    The test of a successful person is not an ability to eliminate all problems before they arise, but to meet and work out difficulties when they do arise.

    Page 246
    I make myself sit down at my desk. Then I pick up a pencil and go through mechanical motions of writing. I put down anything. I doodle. I get my fingers and arm in motion, and sooner or later, without my being conscious of it, my mind gets on the right track.

    Page 274
    When you hit a snag, don’t throw up the whole project. Instead, back off, get mentally refreshed.

    Page 280
    Visualize your future in terms of three departments: work, home, and social.

    Page 324
    Many people fail to tap their creative leadership power because they confer with everybody and everything else but themselves.

    Page 330
    You never gain anything from an argument but you always lose something.

  • The Psychology of Money by Morgan Housel

    Page 2
    Premise of this book is that doing well with money has a little to do with how smart you are and a lot to do with how you behave. And behavior is hard to teach, even to really smart people.

    Page 7
    History never repeats itself; man always does.

    Page 12
    Your personal experience with money make up maybe 0.000000001% of what’s happened in the work, but maybe 80% of how you think the world works.

    Page 14
    If you grew up when inflation was high, you invested less of your money in bonds later in life compared to those who grew up when inflation was low. If you happen to grow up when the stock market was strong, you invested more of your money in stocks later in life compared to those who grew up when stocks were weak.

    Page 18
    Every financial decision a person makes, makes sense to them in that moment and checks the boxes they need to check.

    Page 20
    Before World War II most Americans worked until they died.

    Page 34
    When things are going extremely well, realize it’s not as good as you think. You are not invincible, and if you acknowledge that luck brought you success then you have to believe in luck’s cousin, risk, which can turn your story around just as quickly.

    But the same is true in the other direction.

    Failure can be a lousy teacher, because it seduces smart people into thinking their decisions were terrible when sometimes they just reflect the unforgiving realities of risk. The trick when dealing with failure is arranging your financial life in a way that a bad investment here and a missed financial goal there won’t wipe you out so you can keep playing until the odds fall in your favor.

    Page 62
    “Charlie and I always knew that we would become incredibly wealthy. We were not in a hurry to get wealthy; we know it would happen. Rick was just as smart as us, but he was in a hurry.” – Warren Buffett.

    Page 84
    More than your salary. More than the size of your house. More than the prestige of your job. Control over doing what you wan, when you want to, with the people you want to, is the broadest lifestyle variable that makes people happy.

    Page 85
    On my first day I realized why investment bankers make a lot of money: They work longer and more controlled hours than I knew humans could handle. Actually, most can’t handle it. Going home before midnight was considered a luxury, and there was a saying in the office: “If you don’t come to work on Saturday, don’t bother coming back on Sunday.” The job was intellectually stimulating, paid well, and made me feel important. But every waking second of my time became a slave to my boss’s demands, which was enough to turn it into one of the most miserable experiences of my life. It was a four-month internship. I lasted a month.

    Page 106
    One of the most effective way to increase your saving isn’t to raise your income. It’s to raise your humility.

    Page 186
    Growth is driven by compounding, which always takes time. Destruction is driven by single points of failure, which can happen in seconds, and loss of confidence, which can happen in an instant.

    Page 208
    Become OK with a lot of things going wrong. You can be wrong half the time and still make a fortune.

    Page 217
    The independent feeling I get from owning our house outright far exceeds the known financial gain I’d get from leveraging our assets with a cheap mortgage.

    Page 217
    Good decisions aren’t always rational. At some point you have to choose between being happy or being “right”.

  • The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson

    Loc 138
    The desire for more positive experience is itself a negative experience. And, paradoxically, the acceptance of one’s negative experience is itself a positive experience.

    Loc 202
    Subtlety #1: Not giving a fuck does not mean being indifferent; it means being comfortable with being different.

    Loc 233
    Subtlety #2: To not give a fuck about adversity, you must first give a fuck about something more important than adversity.

    Loc 393
    The secret sauce is in the solving of the problems, not in not having problems in the first place.

    Loc 426
    Negative emotions are a call to action. When you feel them, it’s because you’re supposed to do something.

    Loc 457
    “What pain do you want in your life? What are you willing to struggle for?” Because that seems to be a greater determinant of how our lives turn out.

    Loc 505
    If you think at any point you’re allowed to stop climbing, I’m afraid you’re missing the point. Because the joy is in the climb itself.

    Loc 675
    Entitlement plays out in one of two ways:

    1. I’m awesome and the rest of you all suck, so I deserver special treatment.
    2. I suck and the rest of you are all awesome, so I deserve special treatment.

    Loc 1142
    We don’t always control what happens to us. But we always control how we interpret what happens to us, as well as how we respond…if you get run over by a clown car and pissed on by a busload of schoolchildren, it’s still your responsibility to interpret the meaning of the event and choose a response.

    Loc 1642
    Making a million dollars could threaten your identity just as much as losing all your money; becoming a famous rock star could threaten your identity just as much as losing your job. This is why people are often so afraid of success…it threatens who they believe themselves to be.

    Loc 1751
    If it’s down to me being screwed up, or everybody else being screwed up, it is far, far more likely that I’m the one who’s screwed up.

    Loc 1756
    If it feels like it’s you versus the world, chances are it’s really just you versus yourself.

    Loc 1882
    Because it felt like people didn’t want to talk to me, I came to believe that people didn’t want to talk to me…Because I failed to separate what I felt from what was, I was incapable of stepping outside myself and seeing the world for what it was: a simple place where two people can walk up to each other at any time and speak.

    Loc 1917
    Action isn’t just the effet of motivation; it’s also the cause of it……Action -> Inspiration -> Motivation

    Loc 2039
    The desire to avoid rejection at all costs…is a form of entitlement. Entitled people, because they feel as though they deserve to feel great all the time, avoid rejecting anything because doing so might make them or someone else feel bad.

    Loc 2080
    Healthy love is based on two people acknoledging and addressing their own problems with each other’s support…”If I refused, how would the relationship change?”

    Loc 2152
    People with strong boundaries are not afraid of a temper tantrum, and argument, or getting hurt.