Author: kelly huang

  • Stay True by Hua Hsu

    Stay True by Hua Hsu

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    You couldn’t discriminate against the right answer. But I preferred to spend my time interpreting things.

    Page 11

    We spent summers and winters in Hsinchu; weeks would pass when the only people I spoke to were my parents and their middle-aged friends.

    Page 21

    The first generation thinks about survival; the ones that follow tell the stories.

    Page 40

    When you’re young, you are certain of your capacity to imagine a way out of the previous generation’s problems. There is a different way to grow old, paths that don’t involve conforming and selling out. We would figure it out together, and we would be different together. I just had to find people to be different with.

    Page 57

    The present was a drag. We lived for the future. Youth is a pursuit of this kind of small immortality. You want to leave something behind.

    Page 64

    It was only in my zine that I admitted to dreaming of anything great. In real life, I feared stepping into too large a world and failing. But I wrote things that were earnest and open, that I would never dare say out loud.

    Page 68

    You make a world out of the things you buy. Everything you pick up is a potential gateway, a tiny, cosmetic change that might blossom into an entirely new you.

    Page 101

    Everybody likes something — a song, a movie, a TV show — so you choose not to; this is how you carve out space for yourself.

    Page 180

    Sifting through these small moments of the past was a way of resisting the future.

  • The Magic of Thinking Big by David Schwartz

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    Big ideas and big plans are often easier – certainly no more difficult – than small ideas and small plans.

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    Action cures fear.

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    Your mind wants you to forget the unpleasant. If you will just corporate, unpleasant memories will gradually shrivel and the teller in your memory bank will cancel them out.

    Page 88
    Suppose you say, “We face a problem.” You have created a picture in the minds of others of something difficult, unpleasant to solve. Instead say, “We face a challenge”, and you create a mind picture of fun, sport, something pleasant to do.

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    It isn’t so much what you know when you start that matters. It’s what you learn and put to use after you open your doors that counts most.

    Big success calls for persons who continually set higher standards for themselves and others, persons who are searching for ways to increase efficiency, to get more output at lower cost, do more with less effort.

    Page 129
    The bigger the person, the more apt he is to encourage you to talk; the smaller the person, the more apt he is to preach to you.

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    The child is a living reflection of how his parents or guardians think; for he learns through imitation.

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    The way we think toward our jobs determines how our subordinates think toward their jobs.

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    Get the family on your team. Give them planned attention.

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    You don’t get a raise on the promise of better performance; you get a raise only by demonstrating better performance.

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    Recognize the fact that other fellow has a right to be different…you don’t have to approve of what another fellow does, but you must no dislike him for doing it.

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    Excellent ideas are not enough. An only fair idea acted upon, and developed, is 100 percent better than a terrific idea that dies because it isn’t followed up.

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    The test of a successful person is not an ability to eliminate all problems before they arise, but to meet and work out difficulties when they do arise.

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    I make myself sit down at my desk. Then I pick up a pencil and go through mechanical motions of writing. I put down anything. I doodle. I get my fingers and arm in motion, and sooner or later, without my being conscious of it, my mind gets on the right track.

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    When you hit a snag, don’t throw up the whole project. Instead, back off, get mentally refreshed.

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    Visualize your future in terms of three departments: work, home, and social.

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    Many people fail to tap their creative leadership power because they confer with everybody and everything else but themselves.

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    You never gain anything from an argument but you always lose something.

  • Words and spreadsheets

    The best note-taking apps for collecting your thoughts and data / The Verge

    I’m one of those who tried to find the “perfect tool”. It’s the fight between perfection and execution, perfection (excuse) wins most battles.

    I tried a lot: OneNote, Evernote, Joplin, Notion, Obsidian, Keep, Apple Note, and OneNote; it never ends, just circles.

    Somewhere along the line, rules form:

    • I can’t believe they start charging — Evernote
    • I must keep my own data — Obsidian

    What worked? Spreadsheets, document, folders, and cloud.

  • Exercise, 2023: All Time Low

    2023 was challenging. Having significant increase in work time from my first time manager journey and taking care of my daughter, it was really really tough to keep up with exercise. All major indexes reached all time low.

    This is a major focus of 2024, I’m happier when I feel physically strong. Building up a morning exercise routine is crucial, since it’s the only time I have.

  • Watch I keep coming back to: CASIO F-91W

    This must have been the watch I wore the longest, it’s been close to 5 years.

    From my record, it was purchase in June 18, 2019.

    I had two smart watches in between, a Xiaomi and a Huawei, none of which lasted more than few months.

    What I learned about myself with this watch?

    • I’m lazy, both Smart watches could last a week, but even then I feel frustrated over time.
    • I just want it to work. I turn all notifications off on my smart watch, but the automated screen on when I turn my wrist is something I can’t figure out. Worse, it distracts my daughter while I try to put her to sleep. It’s too much work to check the time.
    • I like small watch. I have a small wrist and really enjoy the fact that I don’t feel the weight.
    • I wore it all the time, to the gym, shower, sleep. At this budget, I don’t have to worry if I break it and get a new one. It’s so durable that it’s commonly used by terrorists.